Here's
something I never thought about until one cold morning in January 2026. Every day it's part
of my wake-up routine to scroll down the list of memories facebook puts
up. Today there were several replies posted by two friends who have died
in recent years. As the realization dawned on me there were sudden
moments of sadness. But soon enough I realized in a way they are still
with me and for a few moments I am again connecting with them and
sharing brief interludes and fond memories with each one. After this was posted, another friend (living) wrote about similar experiences. She likened them to social visits.And there was this follow-up: Here's an example: A few days after I posted about the warmth in reading memory conversations with friends who have died, this came across talking about writing with a friend:
"Joe May
What about the blood on the floor, Tim???
Tim Jones
Beads of it dripping like perspiration from your brow.
Joe May
This evokes an image of someone hunched over an old Underwood typewriter pecking away by the light of a Coleman lantern. The raw plywood floor around his chair is spattered with new and old stains of blood, sweat, and tears. The rusty oil drum stove is surrounded by empty ravioli cans and ice cream cartons. How close is this?
Tim Jones
You just described the 10 x 14 cabin on the Susitna River where I wrote The Last Great Race. My typewriter was an office upright that dated back to the 1930s that I bought from the Chicago Tribune when I worked there. The only thing missing from your picture is the ermine who used to venture out onto the open floor, stand up on his hind legs and look at me like I was crazy."
Since that time I have paid more attention to the comments on posts in my memories lists. Even if I find only one it shines a warm light into the approaching day. Joe and I had several conversations like this one, thinking I might post a few more as I come across them.
A serious shortage
Here's another one of those "Memories" social visits:
April 14, 2021 Tim Jones ·
Can somebody tell me why there's a Dinty Moore Beef Stew shortage. Is it a pandemic thing? Hoarding canned stew. I haven't seen any in my stores since maybe early February. Other brands yes, but not Dinty Moore. This is serious.
Joe May I bought 2 cans around Christmas. Hope I'm not responsible.
Report when you find more.
Tim Jones
Author
I could blame you if I hadn’t bought more than that in December for my winter supply; no more than usual though. I always leave at least one on the shelf.
Johnny Augustus Vespillo Newman
I love Dinty Moore
Tim Jones
Author
Do you know where the name came from?
Johnny Augustus Vespillo Newman
i do not
Tim Jones
He was a character in the Popeye comics
Joe May
He was cook on a tugboat I worked on in 1957. He baked his cakes on both sides. He also drank a lot, both on and off the job.
RECIPE CHAT
April 19, 2015 ·
Shared with Your
friends
Enough of this. No
more Facebook recipes. Garlic and brown sugar glazed chicken is not nearly as
good as it sounds. 
Emma Silver —Lol I'm with you
Carla Helfferich —Too bad--it does
sound good.
Kitty Delorey Fleischman — I used to think
you couldn't use too much garlic until I put six bulbs in a hummus recipe. When
it was finally edible, I had about a gallon of it.
Joe May — I have a recipe for smoked salmon
dip that I don't even share with Sandra. Women just don't seem to understand
the alchemy of dead fish. I had considered putting it in my will for eldest son
but If you're interested, let me know....
Kate KT McKee — I could say
something really crass here in response to Joe, but will let him off the hook
this time.
Joe May — Old Scandinavian humor, Kate. No
offense intended.
Tim Jones — Joe, as long as there's no brown sugar in that
dip recipe I'd love to have it.
Same
design: Used mine to haul logs. Other end of the log was strapped to
the back of a Honda three wheeler ATV. Wheel barrow driver needed only
lift the handles and run like hell to keep up. Very tricky....
Tim Jones I
doubt that mine ever held a log, but I did pack some stuff on it one day
and try to run away from home there. After pushing it up a hill, once I reached the other side and was out of sight, I got scared and went
back. I don't think anybody even knew I had gone. They didn't make ATVs
at this time.
We
hauled 16 ft roofing tin through our swamp with this rig...Sandra on
the wheelbarrow handles, me on the three wheeler....I still remember the
words she used.
I can imagine. I didn't know those words yet when I pushed that thing up the hil
Timmy, Timmy Crockett, King of the wild back yard.....
·
It was a hundred acre wood
Never knew your family had a farm in Java. Interesting!
Not a working farm, really just land but it did have a sugar bush.
Tim,
your expression of isolation including your snow machine, & fat
tire bikes, resembles my personal thoughts, having never owned either.
My mode of remote travel for over thirty years in Alaska, was dog team.
Blazing trails and enjoying Mother Nature. Mechanical transportation is a
total distraction to peace & tranquility. I still wondered what the
result would be if gas pumps went dry and the power grid shut down. The
wild berries providing the wine spirits, with an evening toast to the
"Aurora" dancing on the horizon. Happy New Year...
Here's another one of
those "memories" conversations.
Tim Jones
I had almost
forgotten how therapeutic splitting firewood can be.
Sharon Wright
I used to love our wood stove, campfires, bonfires.
Then I developed an allergy to woodsmoke. Replaced the wood stove with a Toyo
stove and all those symptoms went away. These fires have been hard on me. Glad
someone is still enjoying wood fires and splitting firewood--although it's sure
easier in the winter, Tim.
Tim Jones
I am not burning anything except energy. This wood
is spruce that has fallen down in storms over the years and I never got around
to splitting. About three huge trees worth.
Sharon Wright
Bonus! We're heading back to Delta this weekend to
deal with our blow downs--white spruce and useless poplar. I used to love doing
that, too. Still glad Dave does it all now.Top of FormBottom
of Form
Carrie Ann Nash
I need to do something therapeutic like that. Even
scream therapy or something. The endless outrage is exhausting. And despite all
the fighting and writing and calling I feel totally powerless to overcome the
evil that is Dunleavy/Babcock/Arduin and their minions. Chop away!
Tim Jones
When I was quitting smoking a few years ago, I
always left some unsplit wood in a pile by the door, so when it got to be too
much, I could go out there and blast away at it.
Oh, the joys of writing
Here's another one of those "memories" conversations
Ah the joys of the writer's life. I just received a royalty check for $1.44. One dollar and forty-four cents. Partaaaayyyy!
Shelley GillI
have six books with one publisher. Have yet to get a check. Twenty five
books and I work as a naturalist and do school visits. Shoulda been
anything else.
Tim JonesWe don't do it for the money, that's for sure.
Shelley GillI used to write a book a year. Now I'm trying for three a year.
Tim JonesI
have been working on the current one for more than five years. If it
ever gets finished and sells the hourly wage might be in the negatives
Helen HegenerI
gave up on the traditionals a decade ago, never looked back, never been
sorry. I'm not getting rich, but it's keeping me happy.
Tim JonesYou
should have, it was our book. I'm not sure which is worse, getting a
royalty check for $1.44 or not getting a royalty check for $1.44.
(In a more recent time I received $500 from Cruising World for an article they never printed)
So glad you continue with your blog. Brings up good memories
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteYour blog makes for interesting reads. Continue please
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